Sunday, March 23, 2014

Light at the end of this tunnel

So many of you may be saying,  "it's been so long since we've gotten an update on Judah's Journey!"   Well, yes, it has been a long time.   As many of you may know Judah has now been with us for 8 months.     It is crazy how extremely fast time goes now!    Our little man Judah turned 8 months old last week.   He is nothing short of a blessing and Kyle and I are thankful daily for his laugh, his smiles, his hugs, his kisses, his excitement he always brings to all these simple things we don't even think about.    

                 What has happened during the last 8 months?  

With Judah: He is growing like crazy of course, he is healthy, and he is tall.   He does smile and laugh believe it or not.  If you are around him he is super serious, but give him a minute and you might get a smile.    We are so excited to  see what amazing awesome things God has in store for him.    He loves doing patty cake, and loves when mom and daddy sing Jesus loves me.    He bounces like a crazy man in his bouncy chair, he loves it:)    He now gets to sit inside the carts now at the store, he really thinks he's hot stuff when that happens.


With mom and dad:  Kyle and I have both gotten back into the schedule of church, and work.    I am part time so I enjoy those days off I get to spend with our little man.     Kyle and his business, Valor Insulation Company, are doing well.   Spring, I think, is somewhat here and business is starting to pick up yet again.  

   
With the Adoption:    Judah's adoption, even though he's been home for 8 months, is still not final.     In adoption, you have to follow all the steps, and  it's easy to be upset when something just doesn't get done right away or is not yet complete yet.      In our case we have had some interruptions since bringing him home.      God though has given us a peace in all of it.      We have been waiting for some news on when we can possibly look at finalizing our adoption,  And as of last week Monday, the 17th,  we saw a glimpse of light at the end of the adoption tunnel.    

We need your prayers most importantly during the next 4-6 weeks, as that is the waiting time frame for if we know if we can terminate & finalize our adoption at that time.  We will know the answer to this on April 18th, soon!!      We were not planning on having to go back to Texas to finalize and we were told last week that we could take care of termination and finalization all in one sitting.   It would save us money in court fees and filing fees as well as another attorney fee.     So if all goes smoothly up to April 18th, we would be looking at a trip back to Houston, which was not expected at all. 

Since this has been drawn out more than we fully anticipated, we are needing to do more fundraising.      We are needing the funds by April 18th, which is not far away at all.    We are needing funds to purchase 2 plane tickets, car rental & gas while we are there and to finish paying attorney fees as this has been going on 8 months.    We currenlty do not have an exact dollar amount that is needed.    If you are able to join with us in pray please do and if able through your finances that would be great!    
If you still have our Judah's Journey jars, please save your change for us!      We will also be making Cedar planters for sale!!    You would be able to place a pot directly into the planter or you can buy the landscape tarp to fill your planter with soil.   It is spring and everybody is wanting to see some flowers or pants coming up.   It has been a long winter!!





Kyle and I are selling these cedar planters for $60.    On the inside of each planter will be Judah's handprint because you had a hand in finalizing his adoption.    










If you live in the Bismarck, Mandan area or come to Bismarck often enough please consider purchasing one of Judah's planter's.    Please give us time to get yours made once your order has been placed.    Payment due upon order of your Cedar planter.

If  you don't need a planter, but are able to donate in some way at all, contact Kyle and I via a comment on this blog or facebook.   We also have our donate tab located at the top of this blog at the right hand side.    The donation is done through paypal or credit/debit card.
Please share our blog with all your friends as well.  The more people praying the better. If they are able to financially help we are forever grateful!

It is funny as it has come down to the wire for raising funds and God came through always in the beginning of our whole adoption journey.  He is in this!  Judah's birth mom chose life for him, and God chose Kyle and I.  God presented Kyle and I to Judah's birth mom and it was a perfect match.    We love her so very much and want the best God has for her.   She is an amazing woman and did an amazing thing for her son.   God Bless her greatly!







 

Thursday, July 11, 2013

LARGER HURDLES-BIG GOD

     Where do we even begin......the past few weeks have been a whirl wind with work, training, and getting closer to Judah arriving.    The last week has been very stressful and really hasn't let up yet.     We are so close to Judah arriving, which also means what has been pretty smooth sailing from the get go minus a few minor hurdles we have come this far pretty good! (that last sentence was super long and probably not punctuated properly-yes I look at those things :D )  Anyways, last week we got another hurdle.   This hurdle is higher than our previous ones.  It has thrown stress levels a bit higher as well with everything combined coming closer to his due date.   
       We have unexpected attorney fees we did not really know about for this specific part of our adoption journey.     Kyle and I thought the rest of this would be pretty smooth sailing, and this hurdle has us shuffling things around financially.    
   It is hard writing some of these posts about fundraising and financing when all I want to discuss is how crazy excited we are to tell people the story of Judah and this wonderful woman that will be bringing him into this world.    We have gotten to know her some; she is very open and honest, friendly, super funny, laughing often, pretty sure she is smiling often too.   Even though we have not yet met face to face we know she is beautiful inside and out and we are blessed to even know her.
     Please pray for Kyle and I over this next week as we try and tackle getting over this hurdle.    Pray for peace and for funds to roll in, this week is very vital for finances.  Please pray with us, and if you know people who are willing and able to give, discuss our situation with them and see if they would be willing to help us out financially and prayerfully!  

Love you all!  
 -Donations can be mailed to our address or donated through our "donate" link directly at the top of this blog on the right hand side.
     

Thursday, June 20, 2013

Just when you think it's done...

What's up!!
           We are getting ready for the big day which is approaching fast!   We are trying to get all our ducks in a row and about the only ducks I don't have lined up are for my work.   Finding a temp person can be hard for only 9 weeks at my job.
   Kyle and I had the privilege to talk to Judah's birth mom today.   We have been able to talk to her as often as we like and have been getting to know her over the last 6 days; everything from false labor pains to just shooting the breeze.  She is very sweet, easy going, and very funny.    We are praying for open doors to pray for her.    How amazing it would be to see Judah's birth mom ask Jesus to be Lord of her life!  

  Hadley, Kyle's niece, asked me this past Sunday "When will Judah's tummy mommy have him?" And I was able to say it's only a few weeks away!!    Needless to say the whole family is thrilled.
My mom came up to see us 2 weeks ago and is leaving the end of June.   She said she wanted to get "Micale time" before the baby came.  So now after our little man arrives home she will end up coming back  sometime in August.       Our home is looking like a baby is coming that's for sure.   Bottles, bassinets, pack n play, and swing.  But I have a feeling this little boy of ours will be in our arms way more often, which makes me so happy and will help us bond since we are the new voices he hasn't heard for the past 8-9 months.  

Just when you think fees and paperwork is at completion in an adoption it seems there is always more :) But you just gotta roll with it.   We are needing more funds to cover the extra expenses that will incur for post placement fees and attorney fees.   We are at crunch time yet again and I think God works pretty awesome in those moments.    We are looking for people that are able and willing to donate money that will go towards this.    These fees have to be paid in order to bring Judah home and finalize our adoption.    We are so close to getting these funds, but we are still short.     If you can give please contact us via phone or facebook or even comment on this post.   We would be so grateful for whatever amount you are able to give.     These funds will need to be raised by July 1st.  Which is only 2 weeks away folks!     Please pray and allow the Holy Spirit to direct you on what you feel led to give.   The money that comes in will go to our puzzle pieces.  Will post a pic later, but Kyle and I will be beginning to put the puzzle together.  Remember we can't finish the puzzle till all the pieces have been bought.   ($10 a piece-and we have enough for you!)  

Please continue to pray as we raise these funds in such a short time.   God has been good and we know He is in this whole Journey.   We have been blessed by many.     We look forward to being able to show you our Judah man soon!  

We love you guys and thank you so much for your love and support through this journey and for helping us finish the journey of bringing Judah back home.  We appreciate you and all that you've done and all that is still to come.

Blessings to you

Tuesday, May 28, 2013

We've come thus far...& more to come!


Hello Everybody! 
    Where to begin?   Our garage sale was a success!  Did we sell everything, no, but the majority of it  we did.  We have been accumulating baby items:)
 Judah has a place to sleep on each floor now!  We got our stroller travel system the other day too! This is happening man! 
  We have been blessed by so many people, too many to name here.  We are so grateful for you guys!   
 Our Judah is gonna be here soon and we are thrilled- excited-terrified-ready-not ready-but more ready.  
  Judah has been a thought and passion in our minds for years now.  We began to really   start praying for him in 2012.  And praying  for his mom for protection and to keep her safe and to keep Judah safe from harm.   January of 2013 we thought we'd look at starting into the adoption journey.   Our first ever application was post marked to Gods Children Adoption Agency. (Which mind you, they are amazing) and 4 days later Lindsey called to set up our first home study! She was in our home 7 days after mailing our application out.   Right then and there Kyle and I knew that this just might go fast and not a year long process thing that we had in mind.  Our home study was completed April 25th.  And we prayed that the baby emails we received, we would both be at peace about moving forward on.  We received 5 e-mails and nothing clicked to move ahead on, which we then turned those e-mails into prayers for those moms and babies. 
  And then..... May1st.   Kyle and I received an email about a mom pregnant with a boy and something inside Kyle and I got a little excited.  Needless to say our year long adoption process, which we thought would happen, was blown out of the water. 
  God truly had something good in store. 
I will stop for now and give you more details  when I can.  
 Please consider purchasing one ofJudah's  puzzle pieces for his room. 
We still have $300 pieces left.  
 Maybe you know of other's that may want to help.   The puzzle pieces are $10 a piece and we would love for friends and family and extended friends and family to share in a small piece of Judah's life.  
 

Heres Kyle's stroller project

Tuesday, May 21, 2013

Crunch time-We need your help!!!!

     June is fast approaching and so is Judah!!!    Talked with the agency today and we are needing all funds in full by June 8th in order they get them by June 10th.
Please spread the word about the love of adoption and helping bring home a son.   If others can help,  direct them to our blog if they are able to donate or even our address or phone number.   I promise you we will give more info later.  
We thank-you for prayers and support.



Friday, May 10, 2013

Judah's Journey Home

Hey everybody!
         Kyle and I have been in a whirlwind for about a week with this fast forward motion of Judah's Journey.     We are truly leaning on the One who provides for all our needs.   Truly thankful that we can cast every care upon the Lord because He truly cares for us!   In every situation He cares.  
I will say that our God has not brought us this far to fail us, but to go above and beyond our imaginations.    
Kyle and I are seeing His hand at work a lot during this last week, and we are so grateful. Not just in our adoption journey, but also in Kyle's business. 
Thankful that we serve a God who is always near, He hears our cries and answers them.    

Do we have our funds raised?  No, but still pressing ahead and praying for favor.  We still are in need of  a large chunk of money to come in by June 15th. Let's just say about $16,000 would be perfect, not above and beyond, but perfect.  God's got the whole world in His hands. 

Things coming up would be MAY 23, MAY 24, MAY 25.  These are the dates of our adoption fundraiser/bake sale fundraiser.    Please come out and support our Journey of bringing Judah home!   Tons of items!  dining room tables, a love seat, gun cabinet...and more larger pieces.  Check out the ad on www.bismanonline.com under the rummage sale section.

We still have pieces of our puzzle available as well!   Remember our puzzle pieces are $10 a piece and once the puzzle pieces are all bought up we will put it together and this will actually be framed with all of the families names on the pieces they have bought and be hung in Judah's bedroom.
 If you would like to make a donation you can use our "donate" button directly on the blog or you can contact me via FB or mail us a check. Kyle and Micale Hillerud
                                                                                 1134 N. 28th Street
                                                                                  Bismarck, ND 58501
Help us out by getting the word out and maybe your friends and relatives might be interested in making a donation and being a part of bringing in our Judah to make us 3.

Judah means praise and thanks.  It is interesting that through this whole process it has had it's ups and downs, twists and turns, but never slowing, only accelerating.   And it really has been a journey of Praise and Thanks as well as faith, and total trust in God.  

Love you all,
Micale

Saturday, May 4, 2013

Our Adoption Rush!!!

Hey friends and family,
         We had an exciting snow ball hit us!  Our adoption process got put on FAST FORWARD and we are super excited!   We need $16,000 by end of May in order to bring this little guy home.  
If you can give, please please give.  If you can pray please please pray.
We would love to get this guy home soon.   
Our donate tab is on our blog to donate or if you want to mail a check just private message us via facebook and I can send you our address. 
Please share on your sites or talk to people you know as well if you think someone would be able to give to a wonderful cause!

Love you all,
  Kyle and Micale